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jem_hadar

61 – Bray, Mid-East, Ireland

Sisyphus reborn

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About Him

Country of Origin:
Ireland
Location:
Bray, Mid-East, Ireland
Gender:
Male
Age:
61
Star Sign:
Cancer
Height:
170cm (5' 6.9")
Body Type:
Average
Looks:
Average
Hair Colour:
Grey
Eye Colour:
Green
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Atheist
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
Long-term
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Ask me later
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Regular Drinker
Education:
Bachelors degree
Occupation:
Administrative / Secretarial
Income:
Ask me later

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Ireland
Location:
Dún Laoghaire/Rathdown (Dublin, Ireland)
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
39 - 60
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 179cm (5' 10.5")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Greying; Grey; White; Shaved
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Moderately important
Ethnicity:
Any
Home Language:
Any
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
Relationship Status:
Any
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
No; Maybe
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Any
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

I'm ay shy man who's rather eccentric,an introverted hedonist, wide ranging in my tastes in food,music etc and a bit paradoxical. I can be a bit of a curmudgeon,but I'm also a good listener and supportive.If men are from Mars,and Women from Venus then sometimes I feel as if I'm from Saturn! Or a octagonal peg in a nonagonal hole.Although sometimes a bit dishevelled(I prefer to say Bohemian!),I can be very particular about my dress. I can be hard to please at times, and very old-fashioned about some things, although in other ways I feel a lot younger than my age. I have a quirky,almost surreal sense of humour. I get depressed at times,but I can hide it well and can be cheerful and amusing at times. I'm probably happiest wandering through the ruins of an old castle or abbey.If there is is one quality that defines me as a person,its curiosity:"Let's see what's out there" could be my motto.Consequently,I'm interested in many things and I'm a bit of a magpie. My religious beliefs are eclectic,an odd mixture of many(probably contradictory) beliefs including,among others, christianity and paganism! One more thing-In case all this sounds rather rarefied,,I'm a normal person in most ways,with the normal appetites.I've led a rather sheltered life in some ways,for obvious reasons,and missed out a lot on the physical aspects of relationships,so I'm not embarrassed to say that sex is definitely very important to me.Don't be misled,I may seem-well,in fact,I am-a bit of a bookworm and introspective,but -as in the library stereotype-there's a passionate ,uninhibited man underneath the specs,just waiting for the right woman to release him. As for looks, while I'm no Adonis, I have nice ...feet! And....I have Aspergers Syndrome, diagnosed last year which accounts for the eccentricities.

About His Ideal Match

Appearance is very important to me,and yet ,paradoxically,good looks are not that important either.I would like someone happy to cheer me up when I'm down in the dumps and who is patient enough to put up with some weird baggage. I would like somebody who likes to travel and who likes classical as well as popular music;who is interested in art and architecture and who is able to tolerate Science Fiction and dark fantasy in literature and film(many women can't). I appreciate a certain old-fashioned quality in a woman:what once was called "lady-like"(a bit like the actress Joan Allen),and yet I also appreciate a bold,frank,modern woman.I want it all,don't I! She'll get a devoted ,considerate,(and erotic)! man,all going well.

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More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
Long; It has its moods
Eyesight:
I wear glasses and contacts
Facial Hair:
I have a goatee
Body Hair:
Average
Disabilities:
I have a mental condition
Body Art:
A tattoo or two
Personality
Sense of Humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
A wallflower
Personality Traits:
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Moody; Pessimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Silly; Wild & Crazy
Valued Qualities:
Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Sexiness
Fashion Sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Favourite Colour:
Blue
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Music Preferences:
Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Jazz; New Age; Opera; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rock; World
Reading:
I love it
Books:
Fantasy; Fiction; History; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi
TV Habits:
There're several shows I watch regularly
TV Shows:
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Sci-Fi
Movie Frequency:
Once or twice a month
Movie Preferences:
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns
Interests:
Painting; Photography; Reading; Surfing the Internet
Sport Involvement:
Watching from the couch
Sports:
Bungee jumping; Hiking
Food
Cooking:
I cook rather than starve
Food:
Chinese; French; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Thai; Vietnamese
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at Work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Visiting a museum or gallery
Time Online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Take Drugs:
Not any more
Family Size:
I'm an only child
Family Closeness:
We're dysfunctional
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Pets (Have):
Cat(s)
Pets (Like):
Dog(s)
Turn-ons:
Erotica; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Tattoo(s)
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Work fewer hours
Religious Attendance:
Rarely
Dream Home:
Beach house
Politics:
Liberal
Retirement Plans:
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World
Honesty:
Very